A Year of Super Cool Couples!

Well 2009 was a fantastic year! We shot 32 weddings in 5 cities. That’s 32 super-cool couples that we had the pleasure of getting to know. That’s 32 families that welcomed us into their homes and made us a feel a part of their family. We shot Greek weddings, Italian weddings, Dutch weddings, Lebanese weddings, German weddings, Asian Weddings, Polish weddings, Indian weddings, French and Anglo weddings. Here’s our 2009 couples: click the image to be taken to their blog post…

targen and preety

Sex in Your Sleep?

That whole “No Sex for Two Weeks” post the other day made me wonder…If people are so tired at the end of the day that they’d rather sleep than have sex…
How many of you would consider compromising with your hornier-than-thou partner for sex while you sleep?
To be fair, the sleeping partner in heterosexual relationships would, in most cases, be the woman. So let’s rephrase the question a bit:

Women: Would you allow your lover to “take advantage” of your luscious and tempting yet passed-out-from-exhaustion form? (Sure you might wake up at a few choice moments…But you get the point - No vigorous activity on your end -Just passive enjoyment or full-out sleep.)

Men: Would you feel right having sex with a motionless, warm body? Could you get into that whole “I’m using her for my own pleasure” mindset, or does there HAVE to be more involvement on her end (emotionally, physically, etc.)?
I can see both parties really getting into this sort of thing IF they have rather active imaginations…For example, he might like the idea of “forcing” her “unwilling” body to do things - much like taking advantage of her while she’s drunk, etc. She might feel extra loved by his attentions without feeling the pressure of needing to “respond” as she might while fully awake and engaged.
Turning to the darker side of things, if she has any hidden rape fantasies tucked away, this could be a perfect opportunity to mentally explore the murkier corners of her desires in a very safe and controlled environment.
Really, there are lots of perspectives that can be aptly applied to the sleep-sex situation to make it a fun and bonding experience. Of course, I wouldn’t suggest springing this on your partner in the middle of the night haphazardly! That certainly wouldn’t go over well…but try talking about the possibility beforehand, and next time the opportunity arises…take advantage of it - and her ;) - and see what happens. Maybe you love it, maybe you think it’s boring, maybe you’re too tired to even remember it!
Regardless of the outcome, at least you tried to make time for each other - and that in itself is good enough for me.

Faster Condoms

I joined StumbleUpon today and I’ve been addicted to it ever since. I mean ridiculously addicted. Anyway, here’s one of my recent stumbles that I think you might find interesting.
The Pronto Condom
If you go to their website you can see a demo of how to use it. Apparently the act of ripping open a condom package, positioning the condom correctly, and unrolling it takes too long and many people lose their sexual excitement in the process.
This condom takes care of that and makes putting on a condom as easy as it could physically be. All you do is snap the package open and lower it over your penis - no unrolling or finding out which way is correct. It does it all for you. Nice.
The only problem seems to be that it’s available in South Africa and no where else. Maybe someone knows of a condom that works exactly the same way but is widely available?
It’s worth viewing the demo just to see the coolness of it. As a girl, I’d be freakin’ impressed if a guy whipped out one of these and was ready to go before I could blink!
targen is a sexologist whose credentials include a MA in Family & Sexuality Studies. She is the owner and webmaster of Speak Sexy Blog.

Dubai Motorshow // Fab Design // Porsche Panamera

In our first collection of pictures from the Dubai Motorshow we bring you some pretty bonkers tuner product. I honestly don't think Dubai Motorshow would be Dubai, if it wasn't riddled with tastless nastyness and awesome product in equal measure. First up is the FAB Design Porsche Panamera that rather remarkably was one of the few Panameras present at the show as Porsche made the call not to be there..

The FAB Panamera actually makes history for the Swiss-based tuner as it is the first non-Mercedes-Benz car to come from the company. Usually, favoured subjects include the mother brand as well as McLaren and Maybach. The Chap I managed to get some sense out of on the stand indicated that it might be their first foray into new machines, it will however not be the last...which is potentially good and bad news.

The car's exterior consists of a new front end with big air inlets, a front spoiler, a carbon fibre bonnet, flared fenders/wheel arches, new side skirts, a redesigned rear spoiler and finally an integrated rear diffuser split by three tailpipes.

The guys on the stand where indicating a potential 700hp however they did let slide that the car was actually only stock! I suppose there is no denying that the work that has gone into it is monumental and the look is brutal...whether it is tasteful is down to you I suppose.

The FAB Panamera will be limited to 15 units only.