Saturday, April 24, 2010

A Year of Super Cool Couples!

Well 2009 was a fantastic year! We shot 32 weddings in 5 cities. That’s 32 super-cool couples that we had the pleasure of getting to know. That’s 32 families that welcomed us into their homes and made us a feel a part of their family. We shot Greek weddings, Italian weddings, Dutch weddings, Lebanese weddings, German weddings, Asian Weddings, Polish weddings, Indian weddings, French and Anglo weddings. Here’s our 2009 couples: click the image to be taken to their blog post…

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Sex in Your Sleep?




That whole “No Sex for Two Weeks” post the other day made me wonder…If people are so tired at the end of the day that they’d rather sleep than have sex…
How many of you would consider compromising with your hornier-than-thou partner for sex while you sleep?
To be fair, the sleeping partner in heterosexual relationships would, in most cases, be the woman. So let’s rephrase the question a bit:

Women: Would you allow your lover to “take advantage” of your luscious and tempting yet passed-out-from-exhaustion form? (Sure you might wake up at a few choice moments…But you get the point - No vigorous activity on your end -Just passive enjoyment or full-out sleep.)

Men: Would you feel right having sex with a motionless, warm body? Could you get into that whole “I’m using her for my own pleasure” mindset, or does there HAVE to be more involvement on her end (emotionally, physically, etc.)?
I can see both parties really getting into this sort of thing IF they have rather active imaginations…For example, he might like the idea of “forcing” her “unwilling” body to do things - much like taking advantage of her while she’s drunk, etc. She might feel extra loved by his attentions without feeling the pressure of needing to “respond” as she might while fully awake and engaged.
Turning to the darker side of things, if she has any hidden rape fantasies tucked away, this could be a perfect opportunity to mentally explore the murkier corners of her desires in a very safe and controlled environment.
Really, there are lots of perspectives that can be aptly applied to the sleep-sex situation to make it a fun and bonding experience. Of course, I wouldn’t suggest springing this on your partner in the middle of the night haphazardly! That certainly wouldn’t go over well…but try talking about the possibility beforehand, and next time the opportunity arises…take advantage of it - and her ;) - and see what happens. Maybe you love it, maybe you think it’s boring, maybe you’re too tired to even remember it!
Regardless of the outcome, at least you tried to make time for each other - and that in itself is good enough for me.